there's no point.

current mood: compassionate.
current song: gabe bondoc - treat you good.

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"but what's a relationship without a little pain?"
- AM Kidd.

mhm, i gotcha. sometimes you gotta be sad to know what happiness feels like. what happens when sadness overrides the happiness? is it really worth it? you really think that particular person is "the one" just cos of the quantity of time invested in the relationship? does that make up for the quality of that time? no, it doesn't.
first off, if someone isn't willing to risk their pride over for someone that they love... what does that make them? selfish. why do you have to be the only one who's working hard? trying to make things work, putting the pieces back together when they are bound to fall apart, making sure that they are happy when the feeling isn't being reciprocated back? it's not fair to you. don't cater to some punkass bitch, who's not willing to lift a finger for you.
second, once a cheater, always a cheater. from personal experience, i had to learn the hard way. it's disgusting how someone would be up on some other hoes then tryna front & come back to you. you dunno where their shit has been. if they do that, then how much respect do they have for you? none. sure, sucka ass nigga can suck up & say sorry. but is it sincere? how do you know they're not finna try to pull somethin' like that again? thats right, you DON'T know. better safe than sorry. be smart, & just dip. if a niggas finna pull some bitch move like that, then they really don't have any consideration towards you, or the relationship.
third, someone who dares to lay their hands on you for a pity argument is unacceptable. & continuing to stay in that position is not healthy. physical abuse in a relationship is the lowest blow. not only does it fuck you up literally, but it effects your emotional also. how do you explain to the people that really care for you, those marks, bruises, etc. they don't give a damn about you if they're just going to use you in the worst way for their trippin' ass issues.
fourth, like i said before, sometimes... conflicts are two words from being fixed, depending on the situation... "i'm sorry." is that really so damn hard to say? if someone fucked up. they should accept the consequences & realize that what they did was absolutely wrong. don't let them get it twisted, & expect an apology from you when you clearly were not at fault. they really don't give a shit if they don't know when to apologize. all their wrongs are suddenly right? hell naw. a real person would accept their faults & make their shit up regardless.
finally... don't ever take someone back, after one of the most biggest fuck ups they've done. using love as an excuse to stay isn't going to cover up for all the hurtful bullshit you've been put through. if the problem keeps occurring, then isn't it obvious that nothings been fixed yet? yeah, they can say sorry a million times, & kiss ass. but they didn't really mean it if they continue to repeat the same mistakes over & over again. if you're just going to continuously take them back for every fuck up they did. they're not going to learn anything. & they will take advantage of how much you love them just to fuck you over again, hurting you within the process. no matter how much you'll think it will hurt, just leave them. make them realize how great of a catch you are, & how hard it will be to find someone else like you.
it's really funny sometimes... how people would degrade themselves to sink to such a low level to be with someone that clearly doesn't deserve them. you can forgive, but you can't ever forget.
foreaaals, don't get played, learn how to play the game.

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