current mood: confused?
current song: johnta austin - one time for love.
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reaalllyyy though, don't say i love you unless you mean it. i'm tired of people using that word so constantly that it ends up being just like any other ordinary word. especially, when i hear that it's being said within the first day or week, & to top it off, they add on FOREVER. when it barely ends up lasting up to three months. are you foreal? obviously, you guys don't know each other as well as you thought you did since it didn't end up lasting long. when you supposedly KNOW someone, theres a HUGE level of trust and understanding. & without that being established there comes the result of a crashing relationship. then afterwards when it ends, people mope about it like it's the end of the world and wonder why it didn't work out like you expected to be. obviously, you were never in love, but in DEEP LUST. by thinking that every relationship you're getting into is going to be a fairytale where there's a happily ever after; you're just going to hurt yourself even more by being so vulnerable that every little problem is like another piece of your heart being taken away. so please, wait to say those three words when YOU KNOW that the relationship is stable. no conflicts. no complaining. no hurt. just love. love is the only thing in the world that does not hurt. it'll mean so much more. think about it, are you truly happy with that person? if not, sweetheart, i hate to break it to you, but you're not in love.
yeah it kinda makes me like go psssh quit playing yourself. "you don't love her" whenever one of my friends go thru that phase, but then again since they're my friends, i just go "yeah that's good, that you're both happy"
ReplyDeleteyeaaah mee tooo. (: but then its just kinda frustrating seeing them hecka butthurt over it. & wanting to end their lives for it. lol.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all i would like to say I Love You ;) Second of all i see your point you tell them, people these days be quick with all that stuff gotta say what you mean not what you think you want them to hear. Guess nobody knows what love is anymore so sad. Really honestly there are way too many people like that i feel you. I would also like to think i would like to have me a dream relationship yeah hopeless romantic stats. Ah. But man tho those guys gotta be so dramatic about it too its honestly one of the most ridiculous things you can see. They just sit around and take in all this stuff and when they get into any relationship as small as it might be they hurry up and make the jump like its gonna be some damn movie moment, sheesh. At least there's somebody that understands the true meaning of love you other kids need to hurry up catch on fast aha :)
ReplyDeleteYeah it definitely gets wayyy too much with people always doing things like that its like come on noww i dont even know if they know what they are saying anymore just too caught up in their dreamyass fantasies or some stuff to realize. Think before you make up some stuff you know about its about feeling not saying right? ahah Actions speak louder than words or what? but yeah You got it down pretty well Tam Aha you tell em! lolz ;)
ReplyDeleteyeah theres a perfect example of love right there. tuxedo mask and sailor moon lol
ReplyDeleteHelluh yeah Tuxedo mask zloLZ thats how its supposed to go downn lolz
ReplyDeleteI never turn my back on my friends Im always there to defend, Im the one whom we can depend Im the one called sailor Moon :)
ReplyDeleteLOL. wth. HECKA DUMB.
ReplyDeleteYeah i know some people right? ahaha
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